I have a sister - now what?

It's official now - I have a sister! For months mommy and daddy have been telling me that this would happen. They claimed that supposedly, my sister was living in mommy's belly and this why her belly is growing so much. I didn't believe them, of course. For one, I've seen many other people with bellies (especially when we were in America), and this has never been cause for alarm or anxiety, but only for personal satisfaction and very slow movement (especially in America). Second, why would a baby live in the belly? It's full of food and liquids which limit your movement. Doesn't it make sense to grow in a more spacious and sunny place, like Florida, for example? I asked daddy and he said that Florida is for old people, not for babies. How would he know?

In any case, the day K (for Kristina) finally arrived. Mommy spent the night in the bathtub reading a magazine and then suddenly said, the baby's coming. Magazines have a miraculous power! They called aunt Kim, who is our hebame (this is someone who helps you push a person - in this case, the baby - out; the female version of a bouncer in a dance club, according to daddy). Aunt Kim examined mommy and said that they have to rush to the baby center, so they left me with aunt Eva and uncle Oscar and left to push the baby out. I made a scene, but mostly because I didn't feel like having a sister. Someone to share my toys and room with? Not yet. Maybe when I'm 45, divorced and lonely, but now?

Shortly afterwards daddy came, all silly and smiling, and said that Kristina is out already and that I could come and see her. We all went inside, and there was mommy, looking very beautiful and tired, and a small bundle covered with blood was lying on her belly. (Daddy told me later that the Brits wouldn't say "bundle covered with blood" - they would say "bloody bundle"). I came up to hold her and she smelled nice and looked friendly, so it was alright. We drove home and then uncle Stefan came and they drank with daddy and made a mess of themselves as usual, it was embarrassing, but I played with Kristinka and didn't pay attention. Mommy showed me how to change her diaper and all, it was fun.



But as the day wore out, the baby was just lying there and doing nothing, or crying when doing something. Didn't look like much fun, to tell you the truth, and I told daddy. He said that 6 months from now me and her would be taking a bath together. I was still hesitating. He said that two years from now me and her would be playing together in our room. I was not convinced yet. He said that 16 years from now I would get to meet her girlfriends. That totally did the trick. I hugged Kristinka and told her that I was very glad she was with us.

So, let's see how the next 16 years turn out. So far we've been taking it slowly - she is mostly sleeping, and I'm mostly riding my bicycle.

Sonia and me

Despite my tender age, I have already started exploring women. Daddy says that I am ahead of him - apparently, he had his first girlfriend when he was 6, and then he met mommy when he was 24. When I asked him what he did in between, he said that he studied and had no time for monkey business. Something tells me we will have to revisit this conversation when I am a bit older.

Anyway - about my women. When I was very little, the only woman I had eyes for - apart from mommy - was Johanka. We were filled with mutual passion, and over time our feelings developed into a real affection, as this picture demonstrates. We would exchange gifts: she would give me her pacifier, I would give her mine. Then we would quarrel to get our original pacifiers back. Like an old married couple. Johanka is very playful and I love to be with her. But I didn't want to get pinned down to one woman while I was still in diapers, so I started looking for other distractions too. After all, the heart is a lonely hunter.

By that time, I was ready to explore older women. Well, this need to be qualified: "older" relative to me. When I met Alexandra, she was 26 and I was 1, so she was 25 years older than me. To some people outside Hollywood such an age differance would seem unnatural. But we got on really great since the very beginning. She was beautiful and tender, and she would first hold me, and then I would hold her, while the other grown-ups were sipping coffee. When we got back home, daddy said that my behavior was unexcusable because Ali was the girlfriend of a friend. I told him that if he really is an economist, as he claims, he should believe in competition.

But of course, even if you have lived for 2 whole years, as I have, sooner or later you find your soul mate. Mine is Sonia. Before I pour out my feelings, let me start with the straight facts: Sonia is the daughter of mommy's and daddy's good friends Krassi and Francois, which means that like me, she comes from a mixed marriage. Daddy says that this is great, because if none of us is sure to which country we belong, it would be easier for us to belong to each other. Also, he says, it is great that Sonia's mommy is Bulgarian, as at least one of them will remember the recepe for liutenitsa when they grow old.

Now, to Sonichka. (By the way, I call her Nianu because she calls herself Nunia. People usually don't understand the logic, but I cannot hope to explain the mysteries of love to the ignorenti). She feeds me and she makes me hungry and she pushes me and she pulls me and she makes me laugh and she makes me cry and she runs to me and she runs away from me. She is a real woman, in other words, as daddy pointed out once. We have been through a lot together already: I first visited her when I was in my mommy's belly, then she visited me when I was 9 months old, then she visited me again in my new home in Frankfurt, then I went to Paris again to celebrate her second birthday, and then we skied together. We have even been naked in a bathtub!

Scandalized? Now how about this: we have even slept togeter. It's documented!

But of course, all our parents were around, to make it look socially acceptable.

And did I mention that Sonia is very elegant? Or chic, as her mommy says. Sonichka runs around like a sparrow in her short skirts and size-4 diapers and makes my heart jump. Oh, well. We both have had busy lives recently, with kindergarden and potty training and chicken pox and what not - and then grown-ups think THEY are busy! - and we haven't been together for quite some time, but that doesn't matter. We are bound by what no mortal can unbind. As daddy says, love is when you are looking together through bars and you don't feel in prison. Or was it when you eat chocolate bars in prison together? I never remember, he rarely makes any sense... Bonne nuit, Sonia!

Life in the US

Daddy is weird. I can't understand why he can't sit on his butt - he must travel the world constantly. His latest obssession has been to travel back and forth to some strange country somewhere on the other side of the Earth. That was fine for some time, because I was left alone with mommy without him interfering, hugging and kissing her, and all his other disgusting rituals which only I am supposed to do. But then he decided to take us with him. But it turned out to be fun. First of all, there is this thing they call an airplane, it's full of people who sit and puff and snore and massage their ugly old legs, but it's fun to crawl between them and watch daddy become red in the face when he has to apologize to the owners of the ugly old legs. Then, we lived in a small flat, much smaller than the one in Prague, and I had to indicate my claustrophobia by waking up every morning at 4 am. Mommy and daddy would take me to Starbucks to have coffee, and I would take a nap. Then they would take me to the center of the city which is full of very tall buildings and water and green and what not. They usually take me to this fountain where the water splashes in a very funny way, like when I make pee pee in my pampers, so I always laugh when I hear that, only daddy thinks it's because he's tickling me. Mommy is much more cultured, she takes me to the museum. Well, we never go inside, because she says we are not rich enough to pay for everything I would break. So we stay outsde and pose for the old ladies who stop and smile and say, oh, what a cute baby. Of course, what they really want is to have sex with me when I'm 20, but I will always only love mommy. What I really love about America is the little differences. For example, they say Big Mac instead of Le Big Mac. Also, they have these very deep swings that are super difficult to fall from if you are one of the little people. Of course, what they call the little people here are actually midgets, they have a political party and everything, but they are not little people, not really, they are just big people who pose as little people in order to attract attention. Thankfully, they never try to use those swings, so I have all them to myself, yupi!
Ah, and did I mention the tall buildings?
One thing that I must admit is that daddy picked a beautiful city. Chicago is on a lake and there are many many beautiful parks where we would go to have bbqs (this is american for roasted meat, americans like to sound like noone else, but they end up sounding so that noone else could understand them). There was a big park right next to where we lived, and this is the place mommy and daddy picked for our daily
meetings with their friends from the university (I don't understand why daddy still studies when he can do something useful instead, like buy me a new plastic car). In any case, the last time we did it, daddy invited all his closest friends and they ate and talked about stupid things and I played with the bike of one of them. They are a bizarre bunch - Bulgarians, Algerians, Greeks, even Americans. It is supposedly common, but why can't daddy pick proper French friends that would gain me access to women? But he says he does, and in fact I will meet one such woman soon. I can't wait! And this is my life in the US. If I have to summarize it - it's a place where noone looks at you strangely when you do stupid things.

Remembering Bojka

Daddy wanted to upload a story about our friends Krassi and Francois and one of my future wives Sonia who visited from Paris last month. He was too slow - and as he said, when you get slow and sloppy, misfortune strikes.

One of daddy's dearest friends, Bojka Dobreva, was crossing the street on a hot humid Friday last week. černokostelecká ulice - the street of the Black church. Knowing her - she was thinking about the future - the next Bulgarian folk dancing event she was going to organize; the next Bulgarian wine tasting trip; the next trip to Pirin, where she would sing with friends Moren sokol pie during the sleepless nights under the starry sky, like so many times before; the loving children that were to come. One step at a time, crossing an innocent street, marching through an innocent life.

Only there was no future. Because from the hazy distance came a rushing car, like the heavy hand of a forgetful God who doesn't know and doesn't care, and grabbed her away from us. It took four hours for the life to ooze away from her, for her soul to find peace. Life is an equation that death has so far failed to solve. And so is love.

Bog da te prosti, Boichice!

My family, and how to handle it

As I mentioned before, my family is big but manageable. We don't live all under the same roof as people do in Bangladesh. My daddy says that people from Bangladesh live so densely next to each other, that everyone's hands are in somebody else's pockets. But I'm straying.

The reason I'm saying that my family is easy to handle is that I see them one at a time. Or, rather, two at a time. The two I see most of are mommy and daddy. Well, not always at the same time - for example, they take turns in coming to pick me up in the morning from my bed. They think I haven't noticed, but I know all too well who is coming this particular morning. So when it's mommy, I usually wake up early and start whining to attract her attention as quickly as possible, because then she takes me to the bathroom with her for a diaper change and I can then watch her take a shower. Well, when it's daddy's turn, he also takes me to the bathroom so that in theory I could watch him take a shower too, but I couldn't care less. So I usually lie quietly until about 8:00 AM when it's daddy's turn. He says he doesn't mind.

Now, daddy doesn't know that, but I'm in love with mommy, and when I grow up, I will marry her. Of course, I like my girlfriends Johanka and Sonia, but they are not a match for mommy yet; they can't handle a conversation, can't pick me up and, most importantly, don't have beautiful breasts like mommy does. At this stage of my life, I'm a bit obssessed with breasts, but daddy says not to worry, that in time this obssession will develop into a mere healthy appreciation. He also says that if I keep my focus on boobs, we could date women together without quarreling about who dates which one; he, obviously, healthily appreciates butts. But of course, I don't want to date anyone but mommy when I grow up. Mommy is simply the best, the loveliest and the easiest to hug. So daddy should do good to realize that he is redundant as soon as possible. I don't want him to be hurt when he is old and emotionally fragile.

Now, daddy himself is cool, no doubt about it, and I can put up with him for a while. He also likes to do fun things with me, like mommy. For example, he would tickle my belly with his hair until I cry with tears. He also takes me for long walks, sometimes two hours long, and he walks very fast. He says it's good for both of us - it helps me sleep, and it helps him keep in shape. To tell you the truth, I don't know what shape he is talking about. Sometimes I don't understand him. But he taught me to say "tatatata" and now I repeat that all the time because I like the sound of it, and mommy smiles when I do it because it reminds her of daddy who is very far from us right now, in the country where everyone has a car and the only poem they know is one verse of their national anthem. I asked him once why he has to go there so often, and he said, to secure our future. I don't know what that means. See? Told ya.

Now, apart from mommy and daddy, sometimes I am with my grandparents. My grandmommy Bozhana and granddaddy Angel from Bulgaria visited us some time ago, and we are going to visit them in a month. They are very sweet and funny people. My grandmommy Bozhana sings me songs before I go to sleep, and she's very huggable and fluffy. Granddaddy Angel sometimes holds me like he is afraid I will break, but I know that when I grow up, he will treat me like a big boy and teach me to drink rakia and play tablanet. His daddy taught my daddy this game when my daddy was a little older than me, so apparently it's a family tradition. We, Bulgarians, are well-known for being smarter than our neighbour, and for our love for simple pleasures. Cards, drinking, football, eating and chatting in smoke-filled pubs until the early hours. I'm so excited I will be growing up!

These days, I spend much more time with my grandmommy Jana and granddaddy Jarek from Ostrava. This is a city in the East of the Czech Republic, five hours from Prague where we live right now. Granddaddy Jarek has a massive moustache, which used to scare me when I was little, but now I'm starting to appreciate it because there is always food in it. Grandmommy Jana is always smiling, and she is the best cook in the world - I eat her food "filtered", as daddy says. We go to see them often, and they have a big house where I can crawl as much as I want, with a huge garden where any of them can rock in their chairs with me whenever they like. It's really a lovely place. Sometimes, when all of us are there, mommy and daddy go out in the evenings alone, like when they were just married, and then I either cry a lot before I go to sleep, or I don't, if I decide it's not worth it, and play with the plush bear and the plush monkey. So everyone has peace.

As I said - easy to handle. They are the best, and I wouldn't exchange them even for the British Royal family. Actually - especially for the British Royal family.

About me

Who am I? A little man by the name of Andrej. I've had many names when I was younger - Pan Houska (Mr. Caterpillar), Urvanek (the Crying One), Bubi, Biba and Bibon. Well, to my mommy and daddy I am still Biba.

My mommy is very beautiful. Sometimes we walk in the park and other babies would look at her and start making weird noises to attract her attention. They want her to take them home and take care of them, because every baby wants a pretty mommy. But then I make a poo poo and start crying louder than them and mommy has to rush home and change me.

My daddy is funny. He has black glasses because he works in the bank that makes money, but at home he is crazy. He does stupid things all the time and mommy laughs. He also thinks that he is playing with me, but it's really the other way round. It is enough that I crawl to him or make a "bru-bru" sound with my lips, and he would take me and throw me up and down in the air.

I have two cars, mommy and daddy call them strollers, but they are really cars. I use the big blue one when I don't want to play with the other babies and I want to hide from them. It is big and comfy, like a Rolls Royce. The sporty one I use when I want to get things done, like ride around quickly and impress the girls. It has an open roof and is like a Porsche cabriolet.

I have a big family in Ostrava, Sofia, Prague and New York. I have a grandmommy, granddaddy and greatgrandmommy in Ostrava, a grandmommy, granddaddy and two greatgrandmommies in Sofia, an uncle in Prague and an aunt, an uncle and a cousin in New York. My daddy says that if we all gather under one roof, it will be like a Mafia wedding. I have no idea what that means.

I have many friends - Sonia, Johanka, Kuba, Vojta and Vasik. Actually, I will see Sonia for the first time in a month. I talked to her when I was in mommy's tummy, they say she is very pretty. Johanka is very pretty too, and the guys are fun. I hope to grow tall so that the girls prefer me, but Kuba, Vojta and Vasik are quite a competition.

Ah, I forgot to say - I am 8 months old. These days my mommy and daddy like to dress me up and walk around with me slowly to show everyone how handsome I am. Or at least that's what they think. In reality, I like to walk them around slowly to show everyone what cool mommy and daddy I have.

Welcome!